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If You’re Unsure About Marriage: A Formerly Childfree Person’s Change of Heart. Inflearn Exclusive + Free E-Book Giveaway

Inflearn students, you probably have plenty of concerns about coding, but you also have many thoughts about marriage and having children, don’t you? You may want to get married and have children, but feel that the responsibility would be overwhelming, and worry that you might lose your freedom. I used to be opposed to marriage. I praised the freedom of living an unrestricted life, but at my wife’s persuasion, I decided to get married, thinking, “I might as well give it a try.” At first, I regretted it because marriage seemed to take away my freedom. But when I let go of everything and devoted myself to my family, I somehow became free. And I began to see the advantages that I had been unable to notice because of my prejudices. This course explains what marriage and having children are really like to those who are hesitant about them. I also share thoughts on practical concerns, such as what kind of person you should marry and whether you absolutely need money to get married. Because I used to be opposed to marriage, I was actually able to organize these perspectives more effectively from both sides. You may also hear stories that are not easy to come across elsewhere. When facing the life decisions of marriage and having children—the most important decisions in life—this course will be a worthwhile investment.

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tjswls602

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This lecture was a beacon of hope for our times. Fighting, moms and dads of Korea!

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I learned why one should get married, what the benefits are, and what kind of person I should marry to be happy. This lecture was worth every penny. I highly recommend it.

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A true lecture of this era

What you will gain after the course

  • You will learn about the overall pros and cons of marriage and raising children, especially the benefits obscured by misconceptions.

  • We help you develop a philosophy for meeting the right marriage partner for you.

  • I give you courage.

🪿 Are you worried about marriage and having children?

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"Can I really get married and continue living with one person?"

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"Won’t I lose my life if I have a child?"

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"Isn't there anyone who can systematically teach me about marriage and childbirth?"


Do you want to get married and have children, but have concerns?

I also feel like I might lose my freedom,

Are you also afraid that something bad might happen because of your shortcomings?

On the other hand, do you also feel at a loss because no one explains the overall picture of the pros and cons of married life well?


👉 If so, this course is the best preparatory learning material for marriage and childbirth!

👍🏻 This is how it came to be.


"Should I get married or not?"

"When and with whom should I do it?"

"Do I really have to have children?"

These are the things I used to worry about before getting married.


Then the marriage “experts” around me would answer.

"You should avoid getting married if you can. If you do, wait as long as possible."

"Marriage is nothing special; you just reach a certain age and marry the person you happen to meet then."

"Have children as late as possible."

"Parenting is really hard, but there are still happy moments."



Whenever I heard things like this, rather than helping me sort out my thoughts, they only made me more afraid of marriage and raising children.

Gradually, I became more firmly opposed to getting married, and at some point, I proudly considered myself a non-marriage advocate.

Then, after my wife strongly persuaded me, I got married.


Honestly, at first I even regretted it, feeling that I had lost my freedom.

But after something led me to devote myself to my family and take off my rose-colored glasses,

I began to see the diverse aspects of marriage and parenting that I had been missing.


That's why I created this course for people who are struggling with the same concerns as I was!


👍🏻 I openly share stories you can relate to!


"I'm not the only one struggling with this"


This is the first reaction from people who took the course.

Persuading someone to get married, preparing for the wedding, from the birth of your first child to the birth of your second—

Because it contains detailed, vivid accounts of the experiences faced by today’s generation, you will be able to indirectly experience marriage and parenting at an accelerated pace.

Also, this course doesn’t just contain predictable success stories and feel-good बातें.

It candidly captures the process of a person who once chose not to marry because they did not want to give up their freedom, gradually wavering and changing their mind.

 




👍🏻 Inflearn exclusive! A former developer, PM, and researcher explains everything systematically!


"It was the most convincing video about marriage and childbirth I have ever seen."


I majored in computer science, learned software development, and have worked in research and product management for 10 years.

As such, I am accustomed to explaining things clearly from an engineering perspective.

This course visualizes and compellingly explains the benefits of marriage, principles for deciding whom to marry, and practical questions.


🧸 You didn't expect this, did you? We’re also including the e-book!

It can be difficult to fully understand the material by watching the lectures alone, right?

We’ve also prepared it in book form so it’s easy to digest.

When you enroll in the course, you'll also receive an e-book worth 15,000 won! (140 pages)

Moreover, this isn't just a dry Word document.

All-colorfully designed, so it will be pleasing to read.


💁🏻‍♂️ About the Knowledge Sharer

A lecturer who has completed an ideological conversion

A former advocate of being single, I am now a father constantly raising two children. (There really is no time to rest.) In the neighborhood, I’m known as “the dad who’s a bit clumsy but has fun playing with his kids.”

At one point during my school years, I immersed myself in studying and organized those principles, even publishing <The Right Way to Study> and <Empathy in Studying>. Building a family has given me insights just as profound as studying, and I created this course because I wanted to share them.

I graduated from the Department of Electrical and Computer Engineering at Seoul National University and completed a master's degree in cognitive engineering at KAIST. I have worked for over 10 years at government-funded research institutes and in the startup industry. I am currently interested in psychedelic drugs for treating depression and pursuing a Ph.D. in the Department of Psychology at the University of Exeter in the UK.


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Marriage and having children are among the most important decisions in life.

This course will be a more than worthwhile investment in that decision!

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Who is this course right for?

  • Those who are hesitant about both marriage and having children out of fear

  • For those curious about what marriage and having children mean beyond romantic relationships

  • A DINK couple who are happy with their life now, but suddenly feel anxious about a future without children.

  • Parents who feel overwhelmed by just one child and have mixed feelings when considering a second child

  • Parents exhausted from childcare but seeking encouragement

  • Those who want to take courses on Inflearn in areas beyond coding as well

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Current) PhD Student, Psychedelic Research Group, Department of Psychology, University of Exeter Former) Mentor, Accelerator 500 Global Former) Platform Team Leader, Wisely Company Former) Bagel Labs Soft

  • Current) PhD Student, Psychedelics Research Group, Department of Psychology, University of Exeter

  • Former Mentor at 500 Global (Accelerator)

  • Former Platform Team Leader at Wisely Company

  • Former Software Team Leader at Bagel Labs

  • Former Researcher at Electronics and Telecommunications Research Institute (ETRI)

  • MS in Cognitive Engineering, Department of Knowledge Service Engineering, KAIST

  • B.S. in Electrical and Computer Engineering, Seoul National University

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    A true lecture of this era

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      This lecture was a beacon of hope for our times. Fighting, moms and dads of Korea!

      • ilgyu865859
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        This is a review that makes the instructor choke up with emotion 🥹🥹 Thank you and be happy🙏

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      I learned why one should get married, what the benefits are, and what kind of person I should marry to be happy. This lecture was worth every penny. I highly recommend it.

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        • ilgyu865859
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          Oh, thank you for the first review!!!!

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        • ilgyu865859
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          Thank you so much, Jihoon 🥰💝😍🔥🙏🙇!!!

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